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What could be more important than having a family?
I don't think that there is anything. For a long time, I struggled
to find a man who would be a great husband and father to my
children. I was always surrounded by lots of men and was never
deprived of their attention but I just couldn't seem to find
my soul mate, someone who understood me and loved me for my
inner qualities, not just for my beauty. I sometimes felt
that gorgeous women had a harder time than women who were
plainer. I often noticed how my friends and acquaintances,
who always considered me to be more attractive, managed to
get married and have children, whereas I continued to be single.
One day, I decided I would take the matter into my own hands
and seek out my 'one and only' my true love. I had thought,
during the considerable amount of time that I had not managed
to find anyone that, what if my potential man could be living
so far away from me that we may never get the chance to meet?
This would mean searching further than the confines of my
native town. But how would I do this? I couldn't just head
off wherever there may be some interest. There was, however,
one solution - the Internet.
I managed to find a matchmaking site which a friend of mine
had recommended. She had found a husband herself through this
site. I decided that if she had found someone, then so could
I. Through the site similar to love
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on how best to fill in the application form, how to strike
up correspondence, how to build a relationship and many other
snippets of advice which helped me greatly.
I began to receive letters from an array of people and I hunted
through them to see if my other half was lurking within them.
One day something happened that I can only describe as a miracle.
I found HIM! (Or he found me). His wonderful letter was the
start of a beautiful relationship. Over time, we got married.
It goes without saying that there were hardships along the
way, not in our relationship, but in the fact that we could
not be together as soon as we would have liked. It took time
to sort out the visa, the documents, the emigration etc. Mind
you, this was a drop in the ocean compared to what I got in
return - a marvellous, caring and understanding husband. I
had got myself a true family!
When we are together it is nothing short of a dream! Naturally,
we wanted to have a baby and, within a year, our dream came
true - I gave birth to a son. I love him so much it is untrue!
Now we are a complete family. It is difficult to describe
what motherhood means to a woman. You can read thousands of
books on parenting and children and think that you have a
good idea of them but, when it really happens to you, your
understanding is so far from what it is really like; there
are no words to describe it. You need to have children to
understand what a child is and what a family is!
It goes without saying that children demand a lot of attention,
care and love. A child must be brought up in a strong, caring
environment; in an atmosphere of trust, sincerity and kindness.
Every parent has their own idea of what constitutes good parenting.
In my case, I believed that nurturing should begin from the
moment that the child is born. I started singing lullabies
to my son, conveying not only the words, but the melodies
and the strength of my love for him. I wanted to let him know
how important he was in the world, how cherished he was and
what a lovely world he had been born into.
When he got a little bit older, I started to read him fairytales.
I tried to choose the most riveting books; the most gentle
fairytales ever. They had to convey thoughts on how the world
should be, how people should be. The main thing for me was
to feed my child my own milk. I sought a wealth of compelling
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This site holds a wealth of material for parents who want
to nurture the best qualities in their children, to teach
them morals and to allow them to discover the amazing qualities
about their childhood. These books fill them with wisdom from
a very young age (even from birth). This site has been my
'little helper' in rearing my son and will help me in the
future when raising our daughter.
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